Conjugal Bliss

It is a wrong notion that after marriage couple has to fulfill their conjugal bliss up to the end. Sexual behavior varies from person to person. Planets’ influence must be the reason. Sex shouldn’t be a routine like having meals or other things. It depends on your health, strength and mood. Often one of the couple is more or less sexual. Taking medicine to increase sexual desire and sex addiction will affect health. Highly sexual man is born, not made. Sensibility is needed for sensuality. Sex is not to be used just for fun and money. Nature has given us sexual feeling for reproduction and the human race to go on. The problem is that human beings have to depend on only one partner. It leads to demanding, demanding leads to violence, violence leads to hatred, separation and divorce. Demanding for sex is ignorance among human beings. Observe animals and learn from them. They lead life as Nature has decided. Though they have no restriction in mating and no relationship such as mother, father, brother, sister, they also keep certain rules. They have a particular season for mating. Females have the right to put up resistance if they don’t want to mate. After conceiving and giving birth they will not allow males to come closer until they regained health and strength and ready for another term. How ignorant human beings are! Man will say to his wife, “You are my wife, you should obey, other wise why do you live with me?” Animals don’t say this. They have equal right. If couple abstains from sex at times nothing will happen. It is good for health and to refresh relation. Husband and wife should not be slave to each other. Enough time, space and freedom are needed between both. But if we were animal-like, insecure relation would have affected life. Rules and regulations are made to discipline human beings and for a secure life. We suppress the emotions for the sake of civilization and culture. Everything goes unnatural in our life. Everyone should understand the family life‘s value. The satisfaction you get from well settled family life is much more than the sexual satisfaction. But if planets’ negative influence makes your relationship miserable I am helpless; my advice is useless.